Be Careful What You Believe.

Whenever you have a strong core belief, the brain will go to incredible lengths to make sure that you’re right about it. It really does not matter whether it has to do with relationships, or whether you are always in debt or that people don’t respect you. Whatever you have a strong belief about you will create it in your life, no matter what you do in life you will only be attracted to what you believe.

If you believe you can’t have a good relationship, the only people you will find attractive are those who will make your belief true. You will also be extremely sensitive to any signs or distractions from your partner that they are betraying you in some way. You will basically see what you’re looking for whether it’s really there or not. Your brain will see signs because that is exactly what your mind is focusing on and looking in order for your core beliefs to be validated and reinforced once more.

You will also consciously sabotage yourself. Your brain desperately wants to say, “You see, I’m right. I can’t have a good relationship because my partner always cheats on me.” And unfortunately you will do whatever it takes to prove yourself right. So, you will end up taking actions, whether you’re consciously aware of it or not, that will eventually push the other person away just so that your core belief always remains true.

You will repeatedly remain in this destructive loop because it is safe and secure; it protects you from being hurt. As long as you hold on to your belief, you’re going to experience the same situation over and over again.

The comforting news is, you’re not alone, every human being that walks on the surface of this earth have limiting as well as empowering beliefs about themselves, the world they live in and others. These beliefs have also been created, shaped and reinforced since birth, especially during the first seven years of life.

The great news is that the destructive and limiting beliefs that keep you blocked and stuck in an endless cycle of pain and distress are changeable. You can be encouraged to know that if you take the right approach you can begin to change and replace these core beliefs with empowering ones. First, you have to believe that you always have a choice about what you choose to believe in, secondly with the right knowledge and support you will be able to take back control over your life and create a new reality for yourself.

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